Do you ever miss staying up late talking with your girlfriends at the sleepovers you went to when you were younger?
One of my clients was recently telling me about her dream to have close girlfriends again. She missed the connection she had in her relationships to other women when she was younger. As she grew up, and had a child of her own, she saw it was getting harder and harder to find the time for those kinds of friendship and connection.
This client was doing amazing work to make changes in her life, in her relationship to food, and in taking better care of herself.
She saw that one of the times she would turn to food for comfort was when she felt a loss of connection and friendship, so she was ready to cultivate more women friends in her life.
She was taking time out of her day to get really clear on what she wanted and needed. Together, we made a plan, and I gave her an assignment to start a conversation with a new woman at the gym, and reach out to an old friend who recently moved to her area.
The next time we talked, I asked, “So how did it go for you?”
She replied, “Meredith, you aren’t going to believe what happened. I swear, this manifestation stuff really works. So, you know how I was telling you about how I wanted to be closer to women like I was when I was younger? Having slumber parties and girl time?”
“Well, just this week on Monday night, all three of my clients cancelled their appointments. I suddenly had an open schedule. My son was staying with his father for the night, and I thought, ‘I’ll just have an evening to myself…’ Then out of no where, a friend I haven’t talked to in years called me up and said, ‘My husband’s out of town, and I treated myself to a night at the Tiburon Lodge. Would you like to join me here?’”
“Amazing! So did you?”
“Yes! and suddenly I was swimming in a gorgeous pool, my friend was treating me to dinner, and we stayed up late slumber-party style holding hands in bed sharing our dreams and desires. It was EXACTLY what I wanted!”
We both laughed and laughed at the amazement of what happened, but deep down, I wasn’t surprised.
When you ask, “What does my heart want, above all else?” and begin loving yourself, the fears, self-doubt and negative beliefs clear away.
She had taken the time to connect to what she really wanted, what that would feel like, she was loving herself first and clearing away her fears and suddenly, her desires were showing up on her doorstep.
If you’re ready to figure out what YOU want, I invite you to watch my free training video on manifestation.
The free training gives a taste of the upcoming program I’m leading, VISION.
VISION is a 7-week group program for women ready to shift their thoughts, manifest their desires and live their passions (enrollment and more details open December 1.) The program includes 5 group coaching calls, 2 training videos, and the personal 40-Day meditation VISION practice I use for manifestation.
If you are curious to learn more, join us for the #8DayVISION instagram challenge starting today.
- Follow me on instagram @meredithrom.
- Watch for the photo I post each morning with your challenge for the day.
- Post your photos with the hashtag #8DayVISION and let me know with a shout-out to @meredithrom
- At the end of the 8th day I will choose one lucky woman to join us for a free spot in VISION. Simple!
One lucky winner will win a free spot in VISION.
The first challenge is to create an altar and take a picture of your sacred space! I’ll be posting a picture everyday until December 1st~
I can’t wait to see your pictures!